What to do if I have a crush on my friend’s mom?

Jump to navigation. I am a single mother, my oldest child is 17 and he has a 19 year old friend. I have known this man for quite some time and over that time we have developed feelings for each other. I’ve been single for 8 years and my last relationship was very bad. At first we decided that we had to deny our feelings because we felt it would hurt my son. We were good friends anyway and we have spent a lot of platonic time together. Recently we started seeing each other in secret and it has been a really wonderful time, marred by my feelings of guilt over his friendship with my son. We would like to be open about our relationship but I am so scared it will cause a bad rift in my relationship with my son. We are very close but I don’t think he or my other children see me as anything other than a mum and it would be difficult for them to accept me being with anyone let alone someone who is so young.

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I mindlessly swiped left until a photo of a bearded man happily posing with his golden Lab appeared on my cell phone screen. His profile was free of gym selfies showing off six-pack abs. I swiped right.

What can also be a strange situation is when your ex starts dating the mother of one your child’s friends. That’s what happened to Michelle and I.

I’m going to be 30 this year, and my boyfriend is 23 the problem is that i met him because I was friends with his mom. What should I do? Not only do I think you should continue on but you should have a baby out of wedlock. I think that what this country needs is more people who have no scruples whatsoever. Wow this is an odd one. Normally in a question like this I would say that the mom is in the right and you were wrong.

But as the ages are 30 and 23 that isn’t a HUGE difference.

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HOW do you hook up with someone who is the age of your own parents? As long as they are both consensual adults and are happy with each other, who cares, right? You better believe I snitched to my mom as soon as I got home. A tall, handsome, virile dad greeted us. Flash forward to Thanksgiving Day when my roommate and his mom went out for last-minute groceries.

I stayed home with his dad, who was at the farm, feeding animals.

Age-gap love: I’m marrying my best friend’s son! looks, but it doesn’t bother me now – even if I do sometimes get mistaken for his mother.

I’m not saying go for it or not. Just think it through wisely. It’s not just you and her it will have an affect on! The only opinion from girls was selected the Most Helpful Opinion, but you can still contribute by sharing an opinion! Share Facebook. What to do if I have a crush on my friend’s mom? Add Opinion. I think she might be confused.

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Should I tell my mom I’m dating her friend? Should I please my husband or my family this Thanksgiving? And how do I spend a first meeting.

I am 28 years old and have a 31 year old male friend. We have been friends since we started working together about six years ago. They liked him immediately. My sister even suggested that I date him but I have never looked at him that way. However, it came to my attention through a very reliable source that since that day, they have secretly been seeing each other. At first I laughed and actually dismissed it. I decided to tell my friend the story thinking he would find it silly too but imagine my shock when he told me that it was true.

He said he was tired of hiding and that he loves my mum. I thought I was losing my mind. I confronted my mum and she seems to share the same interest. The woman is 50!

Age-gap love: I’m marrying my best friend’s son!

It may just be me, but making friends as an adult — especially as a parent — is so much harder than it was when I was younger. As a real grown up and parent we have all these responsibilities. When I had my daughter, who is now almost 6, I was pretty isolated. I suffered post-partum depression and none of my friends were having kids yet. But I have a mom friend who I can tell every dirty little secret to about how frustrated I get sometimes with my husband and kids and I never feel judged.

But my mother is starting to show signs of opening up, writes Sajmun about dating openly, like my Canadian friends did with their mothers.

By dallasnews Administrator. Dear Carolyn: My friend Kate and I have known each other for years. After essentially growing up together, Kate’s year-old son and my year-old daughter have become interested in each other romantically. Part of why we differ is probably that the risks of irresponsible dating are greater for a girl. What should I do? I was hoping Kate would be my ally in encouraging the kids to date other people, but no dice.

Dear Colorado: Ages 15 and 17 hardly present scary age or maturity-level gaps. And, they’re dating after getting to know each other with a thoroughness almost impossible to find in the wild. The dating other people that you endorse, on the other hand, would more likely lead to pairings based on looks or physical chemistry vs. And I also get that a relationship between your kids could someday strain you and Kate.

Making Friends With Other Parents Is Like Dating

To build up your tribe, go where other parents are and pursue connections without heavy expectations. Pablo Rochat. By Lyz Lenz. The birth of my second child threw my world into chaos.

#4 Best friend turns into step mom. “Shortly after I graduated high school, a girl in my class started dating her best friend’s dad. The worst part?

And even more important, when have you needed social support more acutely? When my first child was born, the demand on my existing friendships took on a new requirement — practically overnight. Were you a mom, too? Could your child play with mine? Could we have coffee or a glass of wine! And the ratio of rejection is a lot lower than romantic dating. And while I get that many parents have to multitask, the phone is a barrier to in-person connection.

So if you want to make new friends, try going phone-free. Sometimes a common interest can be as simple as your schedule. One year my son and I joined an evening co-op preschool.

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